Monday's Letters

Thank you for the photo, Michaela!

Thank you for the photo, Michaela!

Dear Mr. Hooker, I've gotten so used to having you around each day that I often forget to make mention of the little things you do for me. Thank you for being the best bug-squasher, coffee-maker, clothes-ironer, Suite-vacuumer, laundry-starter, bear-hugger, trash-taker-outer, and curling-iron-unplugger this girl could ever ask for. 

Dear Instagram, we had 3 overnight visitors at the Suite last week. Between long conversations over coffee, pretty walks through the neighborhood, and delicious meals each night, I had plenty of opportunities to snap some photos. As much as I love you, I'm learning that sometimes a memory is better than a photograph. 

Dear long brown hairs, I don't know exactly how you do it, but you manage to find your way onto every surface of our Suite. Poor Jake is always finding you on couch cushions, shirts, and bed sheets. How in the world are there any of you left on my head?

Dear Jake, last night we realized that our 2-year anniversary is less than 3 weeks away. You've experienced every side of me and you've had a front-row seat to all my faults, so hearing you say that "it just keeps getting better and better" means the world. I couldn't agree more.


Past Letters

Each Monday I write four letters: two letters to my husband and two random letters to whatever else is on my heart each week. What originally started as a fun way to record events and funny stories pleasantly developed into a weekly habit of practicing thankfulness.

A Coffee Date with you (and a giveaway!)

It's no secret that I love making new friends and getting to know people. I usually highlight one inspiring lady in a Coffee Date each Friday so we can all get to know her better, but I'm switching things up today. I want to get to know you!

So tell me about yourself by filling out this Coffee Date questionnaire. Not only will it give me a better idea of who you are, but it will help me see what you love about Elle & Company and how I can make things better around here. 

After answering the questions, you might have something else you'd like to tell me or a blog post/feature that you would like to see. Feel free to leave me a comment with any thoughts and feedback you might have. I would love to hear from you. 


And as a little "thank you" for participating and following along, I'm giving away a free 1-year subscription to the Elle & Company Library! The winner will be announced next Tuesday with the Coffee Date results.

Already a Library subscriber? That's okay! Enter the giveaway and if you win, I will be happy to replace your paid subscription with a free account. 

Because who doesn't love a pretty notecard?

Ideas need to be recorded, lists need to be checked off, and love needs to be shared. That's why these pretty little notecards have just been added to the Elle & Company Library, to add a little bit of function and cheer to your day. 

It's hard to choose a favorite, but those "happy notes" just might take the cake. Which one do you like best?


Log in to print these pretty notecards or subscribe today for unlimited access to our growing collection of printable paper goods!

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Recent Library Additions

The One Thing That's Transformed My Business

I hit a wall with Elle & Company a few months ago. Although it may have appeared like I was doing everything right on the surface - blogging once a day, maintaining several consistent blog series, selling products from the shop - something was off behind the scenes. Creativity was at a standstill. Boredom and loneliness were creeping in, seeds of doubt were taking root, and I was feeling extremely unsure of myself and my capabilities. I was burnt out, to say the least.

Then one night in May, my creative slump took a 180-degree turn. After another uninspired day at my computer, I vented my recent frustrations to Jake. He listened patiently, but instead of telling me what I expected to hear (i.e. you're doing a great job, it will all work out, hang in there) he started throwing out new ideas. And for the first time, I was willing to listen. 

What started as a casual conversation ended in a 3-hour brainstorm session. Those first ideas multiplied into more ideas, and at one point I pulled out a notebook to keep track of them all. I filled pages and pages with scribbled handwriting, partly because I was writing quickly to get it all down and partly because I was so excited at what we were coming up with. It was like drinking a cold glass of water on a hot day or eating a huge bowl of ice cream after a diet - those three hours with Jake were exactly what I had been seeking, and his change in perspective was refreshing. Our time together filled me up and kickstarted an exciting new chapter.

From that night on, working together on Elle & Company business became contagious and addicting. Long car rides turned into more exciting brainstorm sessions for blog posts and Library additions. Nights that were once filled with episodes of Parks and Rec turned into nights of research on how we could increase blog traffic or improve sales (although we still sneak Leslie and Ron in there every once in a while). I started running things by Jake and getting a second opinion, which helped uproot those feelings of self-doubt. Boredom and loneliness were no longer an issue and my creativity came back in full force. 

It's no surprise that business has thrived since Jake came on board. He's helped me become more intentional and open-minded, he provides feedback, he challenges my intentions and refines my business practices, and he helps take on part of the load. My blog content has gotten stronger, I've come out with successful new business launches (here and here), and we have even more exciting things in the works.

Jake is strong in the areas where I'm weak and he brings to the table the things that I lack. I'm design-minded, he's business-minded. I get sucked into projects and pretty paper, he gets sucked into articles and analytics. And although our personalities and abilities are polar opposites, we're more like peanut butter and chocolate than pickles and ice cream. We may be different, but we compliment each other well. 

Elle & Company is no longer a one-woman operation. This handsome guy has been hiding behind the scenes, hard at work helping me pursue my passion and achieve my goals. It makes my heart skip a beat to see his interest in this space and his excitement over its growth. Jake's encouragement continues to transform this space and his support has pulled me out of that dry, lonely place. I'm so thankful to have him on board.


Could your business, blog, project, or another area of your life benefit from someone who sees things a little differently than you do? 

How to Start a Blog: Choosing a Name

Choosing a name can be one of the most difficult tasks in starting a blog. I racked my brain for weeks trying to come up with a couple words that accurately reflected my business. I wanted a name that was simple, yet descriptive. Familiar, but one of a kind. Personal, but gave me room to grow. 

Whether you're a brand new blogger or you're going through a rebrand, you've probably experienced the same name game frustration. While there is no 3-step solution to finding the perfect name, here is a helpful guide for finding a memorable blog name you truly love. 

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1. Make a list

After a couple weeks of this series, you should have a good idea of what you're going to write about. You've narrowed your focus, found your niche, developed a mission statement, worked through content, and considered your audience. If you've done your homework, you already have several lists full of ideas and descriptive words. Pull out your notes from these past few weeks and start another brainstorm to get the creative juices flowing.

Begin writing down any and every word associated with your blog. Even if you're 99.9% certain you would never use a particular word in your blog name, it might springboard into a new clever word that you hadn't considered before.

Think about your blog topics, your tone, and your audience, then jot down words associated with them. If you're starting an interior design blog, you might write down obvious words like "space" or "interiors", but push it a little further. Think about fabrics, upholstery, colors, patterns, how a room might make someone feel, treatments, furniture, interior design terms, adjectives that describe a room, etc. Include both broad and descriptive words. 

This might not be a "sit down for an hour and crank it out" kind of ordeal. If you're like me, your greatest ideas might come while you're driving down the interstate or meeting a friend at Starbucks. Carry around a small notebook and give yourself a couple days (or in my case, a couple weeks) to come up with new words.

Once you've exhausted every word option, go through your list highlighting the yeses and crossing off the no-ways. 

2. Keep your purpose in mind

The point of a name is to summarize your blog in a nutshell, so what key elements of your blog are the most important for you to communicate? As you begin to weed through your long list of words, keep your mission statement and your purpose in mind. Size up the items on your list in light of them. 

3. Make one more list

Once you've done all of the above, start a new list for blog name ideas.

Pair two words together. Take an item on your list and add -ista, -ly, or -ed at the end of it. Consider making up a new word by piecing together the syllables from a couple words. Think about creating a name that sounds similar to a word on your list. Sometimes the most memorable names are made-up words that no one has heard before. Like your last list, don't nix ideas before you write them down; they just might spur an idea that will lead you to "the one." Give yourself creative freedom to explore all the options. 

For example, I knew that I wanted my own name somewhere in the name of my blog. While the last name "Hooker" is definitely memorable, I just couldn't bring myself to include it in my blog/business name. I randomly wrote down the name Elle as a play off of the "L" in my first name (Lauren) and the "El" of my middle name (Elizabeth). It sounded feminine, which would appeal to my audience. It was a name, so it was a little more personal and gave my space some character. And it was classy, which played into the more professional feel that I was going for.

4. Consider these questions

Once you've come up with some viable options, consider these questions:

  • Is this name too literal?
  • Is it too obscure or confusing?
  • Does this name give me room to grow and expand down the road?
  • Is it easy to say and spell?
  • Does it reflect the tone of my blog?
  • Will this name appeal to my ideal reader?

When I was going through these myself, I began to think through my business goals to make sure my name would align with them. One of my goals was (and is) to grow. If I ever have the opportunity to bring more people on board with Elle & Company, I want my name to remain the same. And if I ever decide to add another facet to my business, I want my name to be able to encompass it, too. Hence, Elle and Company

5. Do your research

Now that you've exercised your creative freedom and worked through the questions above, do your research. Look into other businesses or blogs who might have already taken the names you've come up with. Try out possible domain names to see if they are available and make sure that your name won't interfere with any current trademarks or DBAs. It would be awful to have your heart set on a name, design a pretty brand around it, and put it on everything only to find out that it has already been taken. 

6. Test it out

Have you settled on a name? Run it by other people and get feedback before you make the jump. They might bring up a different perspective that you may not have considered before. 


Like I said before, there is no perfect process. The steps above are just one way to approach naming your blog, so make adjustments as you see fit to find what works best for you!

For those of you who already have a blog, how did you come up with your name?


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